Slice the chub ham into thin slices.
In a bowl combine the honey, BBQsauce and mustard.
In anotherbowl make the grinder salad, combine mayo, vinegar, syrup, salt, black pepper, red pepper flakes, oregano, parmesan cheese.Mixthoroughly.
Add the jalapenos, red onion,and lettuce,then stir andset aside in the refrigerator.
Oil the grill and char on both sides before basting with sauce, then continually flip and sauce until the sauce has caramelized and the ham slices are sticky (about 6-8 minutes).
Melt the butter,parsley, garlictogetherand slice the hero bun and brush with garlic butter.
Using a spoon press the centreand add cheese to both sides.
Pop in an oven and broil until cheese is golden.
Assemble by adding grilled ham slices, topped with tomato slices and the grinder salad.
Close the sandwichand brush the top with more garlic butter.
Slice into three and serve immediately
